Thursday 29 May 2008
Changes
Posted in Biographical, Journal, La France at 08:43
First: thanks to everyone for your well-wishes! It’s nice to see you all! (I know my blog isn’t comment-inspiring, I myself only comment elsewhere once in a blue moon… so I understand it, but it is nice to “see” people.)
The very first thing I repaired for my new apartment was my mailbox. The lock on it had twisted right from all the key turns over the years and it no longer closed — a simple wrench to tighten the lock bolt fixed that. It’s liberating to learn basic handiwork: how to drive a nail, turn a screw, drill a hole, manage nuts and bolts, and so forth. The best way to learn is to mess around with no expectations and with things that can be ruined, since you’re guaranteed to make mistakes and encounter weird surprises at first. Once you realize through trial and error that just about everything mechanical can be repaired simply by figuring out what attaches what, where and how, and that it usually consists of screws, nuts and/or bolts, life becomes much less intimidating. You then also have a better idea of what can actually be fixed, as opposed to things that are indeed irreparably broken or that require a professional.
Today my table and chair will be delivered, as well as my brand-new refrigerator. My previous, rented apartment came furnished, with appliances as well, and the apartment I shared with my ex for four years also had appliances, apart from the washing machine I chose. Meaning this is the first time I’ve ever bought a refrigerator! Nowadays there’s an excellent choice of environmentally-friendly refrigerators. The one I bought is a well-known FrenchSwedish brand, which is an important point because unlike other refrigerators made by American and German companies, this one comes with a nice rack to hold wine bottles inclined ;-) It’s 1.5m/5 feet tall, with a 208l/55gal top refrigerator and 61l/16gal bottom freezer, and only uses 240KW/h… per year! At 11 euro-cents the kilowatt-hour, that translates to 26.40 euros/year. For comparison, smaller refrigerator-freezers used between 310-350KW/h per year, which is nonetheless an A efficiency rating (excellent), and naturally, larger ones used even more.
Somewhat related through wastefulness/efficiency, there’s an interesting thread about decluttering with lots of different experiences, all agreeing that “less is more”. I too had the unchosen yet liberating feeling of satori when I left my ex and was left with nothing but my clothes. The only things I missed were my books, plants, music and my computer. (The books were kept for me, but I couldn’t exactly do anything with them. All the furniture, and the computer I’d always used — we had two — had been out-and-out taken, based on the claim they had never been mine. Mais passons cela…) I’ve never been able to do without books. I missed them so terribly in the months following that I even dreamt about them. One of my favorite dreams three and a half years ago, when I was living in a furnished motel in Nice and despairing of ever finding landlords who would rent to a single foreigner (with no guarantor) and a freelancer, was of my brother and a dear French friend visiting. They’d brought my lost bookcase, full of books, knowing how much I wanted to see them all again. (Meaning my brother and the friend as well!) As for my computer, it was not only my livelihood at the time, being a freelancer, it was also my connection with loved ones. Thankfully, family pitched in so that I could get a laptop to bide me over until I got back on my feet.
Once my landlords found me (yes, they found me, through this very site! :) ) and I moved into my now-previous apartment, I realized how much I’d missed cooking: thus my current joy in picking out a new refrigerator that I know from experience shall be used well. Losing everything helped highlight what held the most meaning for me: my cat, dependable clothes and shoes, a well-thought-out kitchen, books, plants, music, sewing, a comfortable chair to read in and a table to create on. That, bookcases, a bed, and a place for Malo to go outside and for me to grow plants are all I need to be happy. And I do love my bike as well!
Some helpful moving-in links:
o Changement d’adresse, run by the French government, to change your address for la sécu, les impôts (taxes) and other government agencies.
o Electricité de France (EDF), which is no longer the only electricity provider in France, but I preferred to go through them — their tarif bleu, “blue rates”, are great, and I’ve always found them to be fast and trustworthy.
o There’s water to take care of too; mine is through the building and a shared expense, so I didn’t have to worry about it.






